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Mixed Marriages with Asian Women

Gentle Jim

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Very interesting stories, thanks all for sharing. Remember absolutely no one has a perfect life. We must all adjust to minor bumps along the way over the course of our lives.......and stay as positive as we can!
 

mikemendez

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Gee...how did a Korean boy band appear under my radar? I'll have to ponder that one. [/s]

While popular culture in the US may be down on White people (especially blonds), that is not the case in most of the rest of the world. A lot of these women want White man, even if they're old and past their prime. Many providers have told me (w/o me asking) they consider Asian men less masculine looking than Western men. Their words, not mine. Possible that they were telling me what they thought I wanted to hear (even though it wasn't), but that's what they said. I also had a few tell me they want White husbands so they can have "beautiful White babies". Again, their words, not mine. I also had one girl tell me she wants to date White men, but must marry an Asian man. And, if you look at videos of Asian girls in their home countries, it appears that many try to whiten their skin. In fact, just a few days ago, I saw an article (below) bemoaning the fact that all the top contestants for the Miss India pageant looked "fair skinned".

https://thehill.com/blogs/in-the-kn...a-contest-criticized-for-picking-fair-skinned

Before you label me a "White supremacist", racist, KKK or whatever, remember, I'm the one actively chasing Asian women. These are just observations, so don't shoot the messenger.
@VJ, next I thought you were going to issue out a Militia pamphlet or something, lol. I’ve heard some of the same things by Asian women, prolly more Korean girls. I’m Hispanic, very light skinned, I’ve been asked if I’m Italian or have a Caucasian parent, another issue these women want to avoid marrying their race is not wanting to be a traditional wife/servant to her husband.
 

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I met my Japanese wife when I lived in Japan for two years teaching English. We're married and currently live in the States (for now). The Japanese have very different views of sex than American girls.

My wife basically told me it's ok if I play but don't let her know about it and she was very specific about me having to pay for it. If I pay for it, she says, it's business. But in no way shape or form am I allowed to go to a bar and hook up.
I was told basically the same thing by female friend who said I don’t care per se, if my husband sex with another woman, but if he falls in love with someone else I’m not f’n having that-she was clear
 

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Weird. A woman will be ok with marrying a man she knows is untrustworthy and a known cheat. Guess with some people trust is not at the top list of priorities when entering a serious relationship. Why bother to marry if you are ok being just one of many that a man will be with? They must to do it for the security I would imagine. Self-respect doesn't seem to enter into the equation.
 

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Gee...how did a Korean boy band appear under my radar? I'll have to ponder that one. [/s]

While popular culture in the US may be down on White people (especially blonds), that is not the case in most of the rest of the world. A lot of these women want White man, even if they're old and past their prime. Many providers have told me (w/o me asking) they consider Asian men less masculine looking than Western men. Their words, not mine. Possible that they were telling me what they thought I wanted to hear (even though it wasn't), but that's what they said. I also had a few tell me they want White husbands so they can have "beautiful White babies". Again, their words, not mine. I also had one girl tell me she wants to date White men, but must marry an Asian man. And, if you look at videos of Asian girls in their home countries, it appears that many try to whiten their skin. In fact, just a few days ago, I saw an article (below) bemoaning the fact that all the top contestants for the Miss India pageant looked "fair skinned".

https://thehill.com/blogs/in-the-kn...a-contest-criticized-for-picking-fair-skinned

Before you label me a "White supremacist", racist, KKK or whatever, remember, I'm the one actively chasing Asian women. These are just observations, so don't shoot the messenger.
Well, you’d be wise to pay attention to the things the girls you’re chasing pay attention to. But maybe you just chase Asian milfs. Personally I pay attention to what 20 something Azn girls are interested in.

As to the comment about music stopping after the 90s, that’s just a reflection on your age, not the quality of new music. That’s an old man sitting on the porch bitching about kids nowadays kinda comment.

I don’t disagree with your comment about white men being considered more attractive in Asia though, but it’s more a perception of wealth, than it is sexual attractiveness. Read up on white monkey jobs.

On light skin, it’s always been that way in most Asian countries. Caste system in India was based on skin color. Japanese women always wear heavy sunscreen and use umbrellas to protect their skin from sun. In Thailand, lighter skinned Chinese always get prejudicial treatment over darker skinned genetic Thais. And on and on. It was rooted in the perception that if you were darker skinned, you were an outside laborer, not nobility. Has nothing to do with caucasians. It was like that 1000 years ago.
 

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"As to the comment about music stopping after the 90s, that’s just a reflection on your age, not the quality of new music. That’s an old man sitting on the porch bitching about kids nowadays kinda comment."

Ummm, no...it's a reality. Age has nothing to do with it. If music is good people keep up with it regardless of their age.

Tell me where are today's Led Zeppelin, Eagles, Sabbath, Deep Purple, Queen, The Who, Boston, Kansas, Yes, etc?

Nothing even comes close. The last 25 years or so have been godawful as far as new music. It's all techno, rap, pop electronic garbage.
 

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"As to the comment about music stopping after the 90s, that’s just a reflection on your age, not the quality of new music. That’s an old man sitting on the porch bitching about kids nowadays kinda comment."

Ummm, no...it's a reality. Age has nothing to do with it. If music is good people keep up with it regardless of their age.

Tell me where are today's Led Zeppelin, Eagles, Sabbath, Deep Purple, Queen, The Who, Boston, Kansas, Yes, etc?

Nothing even comes close. The last 25 years or so have been godawful as far as new music. It's all techno, rap, pop electronic garbage.
As for your comments on music I would say a resounding RIGHT ON!!! Who from this generation will be revered 20 years from now? I am a huge fan of old school R&B etc. but where are today's great black artists to rival Stevie Wonder, Marvin Gaye, Luther Vandross, Earth Wind & Fire? Kanye West? Travis Scott? JayZ? Kendrick Lamar? lol they suck. I wouldn't even call that music. Vocal talent? Nope. Lyrics? All about bitches and hos. Instrumental talent? Not even close.
 

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No, my argument was basically, if it gets a young woman in the mood for fucking, I’ll lie there while she rubs my back, or sticks her tongue in my ass and listen to it. I passed on BlackPink tix I got to a spa Kgirl a while back and I’m still reaping benefits. And it cost me nothing.


I don’t really like BTS, but there’s plenty of good music out there. It’s a fair point that instrumental quality isn’t as good right now though. Too much electronic music and focus on vocals. But vocalists are as good now as they ever were. Production quality is miles above the concerts I went to as a kid. Ariana, Drake, Taylor, Selena, Beyoncé, Rihanna, Bruno Mars, Katy Perry are all awesome, and there’s a lot of Chinese and Korean singers you’ve never heard of that are very good. And they all sell as well as people from your era do. I’m old enough to have seen a few of the bands mentioned live, but the best shows I’ve been to ever were Bruno Mars, and Lenny Kravitz.

Sorry for wandering off topic. It’s just reminding me of a conversation I had with my grandmother in the 70’s when I went to a Zeppelin concert. She was a Lawrence Welk fan.
 

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Weird. A woman will be ok with marrying a man she knows is untrustworthy and a known cheat. Guess with some people trust is not at the top list of priorities when entering a serious relationship. Why bother to marry if you are ok being just one of many that a man will be with? They must to do it for the security I would imagine. Self-respect doesn't seem to enter into the equation.
You are using your standards of words like "trust", and making assumptions about the "correct" priority of things that go into a serious relationship. They are not everyone else's standards.

Fundamentally "trust" me and two people agree on the rules, and they trust each other will live within them. If those rules are not for you, don't enter that agreement--but do not assume that people who live up to THEIR agreement are untrustworthy. You are not part of their trust determination.
 

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No, my argument was basically, if it gets a young woman in the mood for fucking, I’ll lie there while she rubs my back, or sticks her tongue in my ass and listen to it. I passed on BlackPink tix I got to a spa Kgirl a while back and I’m still reaping benefits. And it cost me nothing.


I don’t really like BTS, but there’s plenty of good music out there. It’s a fair point that instrumental quality isn’t as good right now though. Too much electronic music and focus on vocals. But vocalists are as good now as they ever were. Production quality is miles above the concerts I went to as a kid. Ariana, Drake, Taylor, Selena, Beyoncé, Rihanna, Bruno Mars, Katy Perry are all awesome, and there’s a lot of Chinese and Korean singers you’ve never heard of that are very good. And they all sell as well as people from your era do. I’m old enough to have seen a few of the bands mentioned live, but the best shows I’ve been to ever were Bruno Mars, and Lenny Kravitz.

Sorry for wandering off topic. It’s just reminding me of a conversation I had with my grandmother in the 70’s when I went to a Zeppelin concert. She was a Lawrence Welk fan.
Tongue in ass aside....
Nothing wrong with metal, R&B and everything else.

But the thing that makes my encounters special with my Kgal is when she sings Kpop songs that I like...slightly off key. That's what makes me her regular. And if she was able to pull of a rendition of Johnny Mathis "Chances Are" I'd probably cash in my pension and run off with her.
 

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You are using your standards of words like "trust", and making assumptions about the "correct" priority of things that go into a serious relationship. They are not everyone else's standards.

Fundamentally "trust" me and two people agree on the rules, and they trust each other will live within them. If those rules are not for you, don't enter that agreement--but do not assume that people who live up to THEIR agreement are untrustworthy. You are not part of their trust determination.
You are using your standards of words like "trust", and making assumptions about the "correct" priority of things that go into a serious relationship. They are not everyone else's standards.

Fundamentally "trust" me and two people agree on the rules, and they trust each other will live within them. If those rules are not for you, don't enter that agreement--but do not assume that people who live up to THEIR agreement are untrustworthy. You are not part of their trust determination.
Is it old-fashioned to believe trust and loyalty go hand in hand? A woman who allows another man to stray willingly is not a woman I would ever trust. It gives her carte blanche to do the same thing, even if she has promised otherwise. What's in it for her to keep her word?

Not a real relationship in my book. It's an arrangement of sorts, but without loyalty as your foundation nothing substantial undergirds the framework of the relationship.
 

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Gee...how did a Korean boy band appear under my radar? I'll have to ponder that one. [/s]

While popular culture in the US may be down on White people (especially blonds), that is not the case in most of the rest of the world. A lot of these women want White man, even if they're old and past their prime. Many providers have told me (w/o me asking) they consider Asian men less masculine looking than Western men. Their words, not mine. Possible that they were telling me what they thought I wanted to hear (even though it wasn't), but that's what they said. I also had a few tell me they want White husbands so they can have "beautiful White babies". Again, their words, not mine. I also had one girl tell me she wants to date White men, but must marry an Asian man. And, if you look at videos of Asian girls in their home countries, it appears that many try to whiten their skin. In fact, just a few days ago, I saw an article (below) bemoaning the fact that all the top contestants for the Miss India pageant looked "fair skinned".

https://thehill.com/blogs/in-the-kn...a-contest-criticized-for-picking-fair-skinned

Before you label me a "White supremacist", racist, KKK or whatever, remember, I'm the one actively chasing Asian women. These are just observations, so don't shoot the messenger.
Ok, preferences or discrimination? Maybe both, but definitely the latter.
"the unjust or prejudicial treatment of different categories of people or things, especially on the grounds of race, age, or sex. "
There you go, sex, AND race in the case of Asian men.
Preferences are you like blonds, short, heavy, smart, athletic, assertive, funny etc.
Any of you non-Asians on here, if you walk in to an AMP and they tell you they don't service your kind(white, black, hispanic, Indian), would you feel discriminated against or just feel like they just prefer other ethnicities, oh well?
 

TGBeldin

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Is it old-fashioned to believe trust and loyalty go hand in hand? A woman who allows another man to stray willingly is not a woman I would ever trust. It gives her carte blanche to do the same thing, even if she has promised otherwise. What's in it for her to keep her word?

Not a real relationship in my book. It's an arrangement of sorts, but without loyalty as your foundation nothing substantial undergirds the framework of the relationship.
What I read is that an open marriage would be an unacceptable agreement to you, and that's fine. It would not be acceptable to me either--so I would not agree to it. But neither will I tell two other people that it won't work for them.

There was one woman I got serious with. We both agreed that if we got married, she would stop working in the sex world, and I would stop being a client. That was OK on both fronts for both of us. We also talked about her occasional interest in another woman. I knew it was something she enjoyed occasionally on a purely sexual level. That did not bother me, and I agreed she could do that with my blessing. Her enjoyment was important to me, her being with another woman for purely physical interaction was not a big deal to me. I completely understand it could be for others, and again so long as they discuss and agree I think that is their business--so long as they keep to what they knowingly agreed, that is loyalty in my mind.

It did not work out, but it had nothing to do with that. There was a 25 year age difference, and that is essentially what was too hard to overcome.
 

TGBeldin

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Ok, preferences or discrimination? Maybe both, but definitely the latter.
"the unjust or prejudicial treatment of different categories of people or things, especially on the grounds of race, age, or sex. "
There you go, sex, AND race in the case of Asian men.
Preferences are you like blonds, short, heavy, smart, athletic, assertive, funny etc.
Any of you non-Asians on here, if you walk in to an AMP and they tell you they don't service your kind(white, black, hispanic, Indian), would you feel discriminated against or just feel like they just prefer other ethnicities, oh well?
This is a very electric discussion that has been argued over and over forever. I have had woman tell me that--sometimes about race, sometimes about age. So be it--there are many others in the sea. I always assume that if a woman finds me unattractive (not just "not attractive", but bordering on repulsive), or has a dislike for what I am, then it's best she say so since it will likely be a lackluster session if she bites her tongue and goes through with it. There are women who have been attacked, robbed, or raped by people from a particular group ( often a different group for different women, I am NOT saying any group is more predisposed to do this) and I completely understand why such a woman would have psychological/emotional reasons for not wanting to be in an intimate and vulnerable position with someone who reminds her of that. (Having said that, yes, some women are just bigots. That also happens.)
 

solomon_456

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I met my Japanese wife when I lived in Japan for two years teaching English. We're married and currently live in the States (for now). The Japanese have very different views of sex than American girls.

My wife basically told me it's ok if I play but don't let her know about it and she was very specific about me having to pay for it. If I pay for it, she says, it's business. But in no way shape or form am I allowed to go to a bar and hook up.
This makes perfect sense, I don’t know why other women wouldn’t understand it
 
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