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Question for all you guys out there

Spa1123

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@ASIANFUNTIME
Thank you, she was fortunate you were that one guy in the room with her, I’m certain most other guys would have pounced, I can think of a few that only view these women as soulless objects. Hopefully she pressed her way through and is getting along fine.
Actually, it might have been better if @ASIANFUNTIME had gently led her through whatever service was to be expected at that spa. If she truly had no idea what to do beforehand, then after @ASIANFUNTIME's visit her next "real" customer must have been quite a shock. It was a noble gesture by @ASIANFUNTIME, but maybe not the best one for the young woman.
 

ASIANFUNTIME

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I really did not know what to do. And I could be completely wrong but the vibe that I got was that she didn't know what she signed up for. It seemed to me like she just wanted to be out of there but who knows? I don't know how these things really work but she was like I said very young and seemed afraid. She just seemed like she did not belong there.

I'm the kind of guy that when I see a provider that's into being a provider and she's into the service and into her job that's great. And I tend to like women that look the part, meaning they're ready to play and they know the game. I also do not like the younger younger women because to me they look like a child even though they may not be.

It never crossed my mind to try to walk her through it, but honestly to me it just kind of felt like I would have been, for lack of a better word, raping a young woman who seemingly was there against her will.

It did cross my mind to call the authorities, but I decided not to. I thought that maybe the authorities couldn't do anything and maybe it would be worse for her to go through the immigration system and all the problems that would come with that for her. And I didn't know if they would even do anything anyway. I had been to that Spa many many times and that was absolutely the last thing I expected to see and it threw me such a curve I did not know what to do.

The only thing that I regret from that situation is that I did not point blank ask her if she was being held there against her will.

I hope that she's okay wherever she is.
 

Wayne1250

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Asianfuntime I had just one similar event almost 5 years ago. At the time I was still in my rookie season. This girl definitely did not belong in a spa, so when it came time in the room, I started but stopped because she looked so distraught. I got dressed apologized and gave her the standard tip.

On the way out I just told the MMS that she did not belong there. She was gone the next day, hopefully for more suitable employment.

(PS)
It seemed like her first time and was not prepared for the job description.
 

KiteEnvy

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These girls are not all fake. And not are all money grabbers. Their expectations are also based on the lies they are fed. If you are up front, there are good friendships that can be establised.
It’s refreshing to see the respect and caring several of you have for these woman. They deserve to be treated with kindness and dignity. The “a-hole macho” crude comments I see on this board are pathetic and witless.
 

KittyHawk

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It’s refreshing to see the respect and caring several of you have for these woman. They deserve to be treated with kindness and dignity. The “a-hole macho” crude comments I see on this board are pathetic and witless.
I have trouble getting the word prostitute into my mind. The ones that I have met so far, I call angels. Maybe I've just been lucky.
 

kgmspa

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ASIANFUNTIME not something I have ever encountered. Not sure how I would react thinking a massage girl was scared. I would probably hug her and then see if she wanted to talk and try and make her feel good. Perhaps offer to give her a massage. Put her mind if possible in a happy place!
 

Nottarobot

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It’s refreshing to see the respect and caring several of you have for these woman. They deserve to be treated with kindness and dignity. The “a-hole macho” crude comments I see on this board are pathetic and witless.
Oh, do I agree!!
 

Uniquelyme

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It doesn't matter what the truth is (it can and often is complicated) some guys will claim they are all thieves, addicts, and liars. Sad.
Only someone who is blinded by emotion would say all. I can't even think what the percentage is of girls that work amps that arent any of those things. I've met a few that are good people. However in a business like the one they are in. There are many that are addicts, thieves and liars.
 

Wayne1250

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Bad traits for sure, really, but they are not bad inside. Addictions are difficult, they all lie a little, but theives are over the line.

Some just need a chance and some mentoring direction to improve themselves. Can be you, a caring MMS, or a great older girlfriend. There is good in everyone.
 
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