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Question for all you guys out there

Chiparlor

Has Decided to Walk on Earth.
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#63
A monger know what I did yesterday and today with my trusting providers. I do not feel sorry for my trusting providers because they are free to do what they want to do. I enjoyed what I did with them and for them because we exchanged a lot of information including real names. My trusting providers enjoy doing what they are doing because this profession makes them richer faster.

My trusting providers showed me their pictures. I wanted some of them and they handed them to me with no problems to make duplicates and return the originals to them.

My #1 ATF has an iPhone 7S. I have iPhone X. I lended her my phone and allowed her to play with it. She liked the X. However, I recommended XR for her. I preferred XR, but will only get $300 credit whereas with X, I will get $600 credit. That is why I got X. Pondering about #1 ATF today, she sent several beautiful selfies about an hour ago. I told her to go to her favorite wireless carrier retail and pick out an XR of her choice up to 256 GB and have the wireless carrier call me for my card. You can imagine the ear to ear smile.

Enjoy doing what you are doing anytime, anyplace, and anywhere because they are doing the same.

However, there is one area I feel sorry for the providers who had to put up with certain mongers and that will be shared at another time.
 

VJLUTZ

Desire is the opposite of death.
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#69
A few weeks ago, I had a personal conversation with one of the girls who works at a well-known spa in Manhattan. I asked her why she does this and she said she needs to support her family back home. She acknowledged that she didn’t like doing this but no choice. I told her there are other choices here, that she could do another job without selling her body. She grew uncomfortable and asked if we could not talk about this subject anymore. Clearly there is a lot of rationalization and denial going on in their minds
A couple of thoughts:
1. Yes, there is a choice. They do what they do because the other choices are much harder physical work for far less money. Those are jobs that don't let you watch TV, nap, play games, or do your nails between customers.
2. It surprises me how many of these women had solid careers back home. Not all, but enough to make me wonder. You especially run into that with the smarter ones. Some of them show me pictures of the nice house they have back home that they are working here to pay off.
3. American women on sugar daddy sites like Seeking.com are selling their bodies too. They don't call it that though; its an "arrangement" & therefore more respectable (in their minds). Of course, it still equates to $$ for sex. They key difference is they don't have to service just anyone, they can be discriminating. Ditto with women who give head at work to get ahead.
4. When it comes to luxury stuff, its all about the status with these women, not the quality/value of the product. It's about one-upping their GFs.
5. My own opinion is women using sex to feather their nest is just ingrained in their DNA. It comes naturally, like breathing. In fact, those who don't do it are the ones going against their own grain.
 

Uniquelyme

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#70
A couple of thoughts:
1. Yes, there is a choice. They do what they do because the other choices are much harder physical work for far less money. Those are jobs that don't let you watch TV, nap, play games, or do your nails between customers.
2. It surprises me how many of these women had solid careers back home. Not all, but enough to make me wonder. You especially run into that with the smarter ones. Some of them show me pictures of the nice house they have back home that they are working here to pay off.
3. American women on sugar daddy sites like Seeking.com are selling their bodies too. They don't call it that though; its an "arrangement" & therefore more respectable (in their minds). Of course, it still equates to $$ for sex. They key difference is they don't have to service just anyone, they can be discriminating. Ditto with women who give head at work to get ahead.
4. When it comes to luxury stuff, its all about the status with these women, not the quality/value of the product. It's about one-upping their GFs.
5. My own opinion is women using sex to feather their nest is just ingrained in their DNA. It comes naturally, like breathing. In fact, those who don't do it are the ones going against their own grain.
Women who have sex for cash are typically lazy in the sense of they don't want to work for small amounts and have to move up and or go to school etc. They rationalize it for sure. Some of them enjoy sex and figure why not get cash for it. This doesn't apply to ALL Women but many of the working girls.
 

mikemendez

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#71
Many of these women are probably thinking “give a man use of my body for a few minutes and a shower/massage, that’s it? And Paid in cash, when can I start?”
 

kgmspa

Review Contributor
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#72
Many of these women are probably thinking “give a man use of my body for a few minutes and a shower/massage, that’s it? And Paid in cash, when can I start?”
That is the rational she will use! Makes perfect sense! Block it out but provide great service! Make lots of money!

She is a person with feelings! At least for me :)
 

VJLUTZ

Desire is the opposite of death.
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#73
Many of these women are probably thinking “give a man use of my body for a few minutes and a shower/massage, that’s it? And Paid in cash, when can I start?”
Some may eventually think that off the bat, but probably not most. They often ease into it over a period of months. Psychologically, it's a bitter pill to swallow.
On the flip side, once they are in it, it's hard to walk away from the easy $$ and getting back to earning a pittance the hardscrabble way. I also think once their families see the $$ rolling in, they don't want it to stop. And they quickly stop asking the tough questions about where the $$ is coming from.
 

didi88

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#74
It’s often a stepwise process. Girl comes here to make more money, initially takes a job in a nail salon or restaurant, and soon winds up working long hours for little $$. Then someone tells her she can make more doing massage, so she changes jobs. At first, she does strictly legit massage, but the tips are not great. Then she finds out she can make more by doing HE’s, so she starts with that. Then she finds that she can make more by taking off her clothes, so she begins doing that. And next, it moves to BJ, and finally FS. At the end of the day, she’s now been transformed into a full-fledged provider, each step motivated by additional cash benefits
 

kgmspa

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#75
IF there was HE market for women I would do it! But I would only go so far! Handjob, then finger, then maybe a kiss! I can see how money might influence my decision! :)
 

didi88

Review Contributor
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#76
Anybody ever look at the pics in their WeChat profiles? Some are interesting. Gives a glimpse into their lives outside the spa with their friends and families. Lots of photos of food, clothes, jewelry, places they travel, parties at KTVs, New Year celebrations, etc. Almost makes their spa persona hard to recognize. Many really have double lives..but if they do this job, I guess they have to
 

anonymous73

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#77
Do you ever feel sorry for these girls that they have to do what they do and they work seven days a week even on holidays sometimes I have a heart and I really feel bad for them I’m guilty because I go to them but I do feel bad to them sometimes when I think about it but there’s nothing I can do about it I can’t save them
It is what it is. I work 4 days a week, do a vending business which I still need machines placed, work with actually 2 sales friends on websites, sell pecans with fast shipping, amazon stuff. I just made 3 sales in 3 days. When I stop by for a session, we get to know each other and I have shown some of the girls my selling stuff. They're impressed. I rather have sessions with them than strip club girls.
 

anonymous73

Review Contributor
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#78
Anybody ever look at the pics in their WeChat profiles? Some are interesting. Gives a glimpse into their lives outside the spa with their friends and families. Lots of photos of food, clothes, jewelry, places they travel, parties at KTVs, New Year celebrations, etc. Almost makes their spa persona hard to recognize. Many really have double lives..but if they do this job, I guess they have to
I don't do we chat. I don't like it.
 

Mara_massage

Registered Member
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#80
It’s often a stepwise process. Girl comes here to make more money, initially takes a job in a nail salon or restaurant, and soon winds up working long hours for little $$. Then someone tells her she can make more doing massage, so she changes jobs. At first, she does strictly legit massage, but the tips are not great. Then she finds out she can make more by doing HE’s, so she starts with that. Then she finds that she can make more by taking off her clothes, so she begins doing that. And next, it moves to BJ, and finally FS. At the end of the day, she’s now been transformed into a full-fledged provider, each step motivated by additional cash benefits
Perhaps in some instances they eventually reverse that progression before settling down here,or returning home.
 
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