A few weeks ago, I had a personal conversation with one of the girls who works at a well-known spa in Manhattan. I asked her why she does this and she said she needs to support her family back home. She acknowledged that she didn’t like doing this but no choice. I told her there are other choices here, that she could do another job without selling her body. She grew uncomfortable and asked if we could not talk about this subject anymore. Clearly there is a lot of rationalization and denial going on in their minds
A couple of thoughts:
1. Yes, there is a choice. They do what they do because the other choices are much harder physical work for far less money. Those are jobs that don't let you watch TV, nap, play games, or do your nails between customers.
2. It surprises me how many of these women had solid careers back home. Not all, but enough to make me wonder. You especially run into that with the smarter ones. Some of them show me pictures of the nice house they have back home that they are working here to pay off.
3. American women on sugar daddy sites like Seeking.com are selling their bodies too. They don't call it that though; its an "arrangement" & therefore more respectable (in their minds). Of course, it still equates to $$ for sex. They key difference is they don't have to service just anyone, they can be discriminating. Ditto with women who give head at work to get ahead.
4. When it comes to luxury stuff, its all about the status with these women, not the quality/value of the product. It's about one-upping their GFs.
5. My own opinion is women using sex to feather their nest is just ingrained in their DNA. It comes naturally, like breathing. In fact, those who
don't do it are the ones going against their own grain.