Question for all you guys out there

[mikemendez]

Anybody ever look at the pics in their WeChat profiles? Some are interesting. Gives a glimpse into their lives outside the spa with their friends and families. Lots of photos of food, clothes, jewelry, places they travel, parties at KTVs, New Year celebrations, etc. Almost makes their spa persona hard to recognize. Many really have double lives..but if they do this job, I guess they have to

You’re obviously speaking from experience IMHO via you post entry, they open their lives up beyond the AMP, you see her/them as a person, not only as a provider, I have spoken to some of the girls I was WC friends with when my account was active, when they showed me photos of parents and children back in their home country while speaking about life back home, how they missed them etc etc, it gave me a sense of them unlike I had in my own mind. This is a tough industry no matter the service level, to some, providers are just a means for self gratification, no judgement on my part, to others it’s a bit more involved, I’ve said it many times in the past and I’ll say it again, I’ve met some very interesting people since this Amp journey began.
It’s not always about the money for service exchange.

 

[didi88]

You’re obviously speaking from experience IMHO via you post entry, they open their lives up beyond the AMP, you see her/them as a person, not only as a provider, I have spoken to some of the girls I was WC friends with when my account was active, when they showed me photos of parents and children back in their home country while speaking about life back home, how they missed them etc etc, it gave me a sense of them unlike I had in my own mind. This is a tough industry no matter the service level, to some, providers are just a means for self gratification, no judgement on my part, to others it’s a bit more involved, I’ve said it many times in the past and I’ll say it again, I’ve met some very interesting people since this Amp journey began.
It’s not always about the money for service exchange.

Yes sometimes you get a glimpse behind the facade, and it can change your opinions somewhat. I recently had a conversation with a girl who works full time in a FS spa here in NYC. She told me how homesick she was, and how she was struggling to make money here in order to provide for her child back home. Her husband left her and she gets no child support, so she has to be the sole provider. She said she does this because she has no real choice here coming on a visitors visa and not being able to work legally. The work servicing multiple guys every day is has begun to wear on her but she just keeps thinking of her family and tries to put it aside. I felt sad listening to this. She wasn’t trying to ask me for money, set me up for future financial help, or entice me for a spa visit. She was just being open about her situation, if nothing more than to explain her real feelings. I suspect many of the others working in this job are in the same boat. But most guys will not hear about it, nor should they necessarily care anyway, since they are customers, not confidants. Having said all this, not all these girls are such innocent victims as they would like us to believe. Certainly some are devious, dishonest, and phony as we’ve discussed here before. But some remain with a heart, and are struggling in their own way

 

[mikemendez]

True that, I give everyone the benefit of doubt first, if they prove different, so be it, it’s on them. I’ve been hustled early on in this hobby, then I found SpaHunters and wised up, I can appreciate the post details.

 

[Nottarobot]

Perhaps in some instances they eventually reverse that progression before settling down here,or returning home.

Could be..

 

[TGBeldin]

"Certainly some are devious, dishonest, and phony as we’ve discussed here before. But some remain with a heart, and are struggling in their own way"

Sounds like people in general.

 

[Mara_massage]

"Certainly some are devious, dishonest, and phony as we’ve discussed here before. But some remain with a heart, and are struggling in their own way"

Sounds like people in general.

God Bless You for telling that Truth !!

 

[Ampme]

Do you ever feel sorry for these girls that they have to do what they do and they work seven days a week even on holidays sometimes I have a heart and I really feel bad for them I’m guilty because I go to them but I do feel bad to them sometimes when I think about it but there’s nothing I can do about it I can’t save them

I used to, started giving out astronomical large tips thinking they'll get out of the business. But they will take advantage and feed their habit

 

[Plat122]

I used to, started giving out astronomical large tips thinking they'll get out of the business. But they will take advantage and feed their habit

So you are the guy driving up prices and expectations!!!! Smh

 

[Ampme]

So you are the guy driving up prices and expectations!!!! Smh

Was. No more, just have fun at the amps

 

[Mara_massage]

I used to, started giving out astronomical large tips thinking they'll get out of the business. But they will take advantage and feed their habit

What habit(s) ??

 

[Waterboy]

What habit(s) ??

Gucci, Rolex, Mercedes Benz.

 

[Uniquelyme]

Gucci, Rolex, Mercedes Benz.

They don't buy Rolexes. They don't buy Benzes. However they do buy Gucci, Fendi, Louis Vuitton.

And they do help out the Native Americans.

 

[Waterboy]

They don't buy Rolexes. They don't buy Benzes. However they do buy Gucci, Fendi, Louis Vuitton.

And they do help out the Native Americans.

Gotcha. Although I know a few with BMW and Lexus.

 

[Uniquelyme]

Gotcha. Although I know a few with BMW and Lexus.

Hmmmm their name on the title?? I doubt it.

Anyway they do notice fashion. I wear some fly kicks from time to time. Wore these kicks to amps and a latina non fast house spot and the latina spot just said nice. But the Asian girls wanted to know what brand cause it looked European to them. I told them Ferragmo's. They didn't hear of that brand much. Next time I saw that same girl she said ohhh very nice and said she likes their clothes all of a sudden lol.

 

[Plat122]

Hmmmm their name on the title?? I doubt it.

Anyway they do notice fashion. I wear some fly kicks from time to time. Wore these kicks to amps and a latina non fast house spot and the latina spot just said nice. But the Asian girls wanted to know what brand cause it looked European to them. I told them Ferragmo's. They didn't hear of that brand much. Next time I saw that same girl she said ohhh very nice and said she likes their clothes all of a sudden lol.

Sugar Daddy's name is on the title

 

[Uniquelyme]

Sugar Daddy's name is on the title

Sugar Daddy giveth and he can taketh away!!

 

[Wayne1250]

These girls are not all fake. And not are all money grabbers. Their expectations are also based on the lies they are fed. If you are up front, there are good friendships that can be establised.

 

[TGBeldin]

These girls are not all fake. And not are all money grabbers. Their expectations are also based on the lies they are fed. If you are up front, there are good friendships that can be establised.

It doesn't matter what the truth is (it can and often is complicated) some guys will claim they are all thieves, addicts, and liars. Sad.

 

[ASIANFUNTIME]

I'm sure a lot of you have spent more time in Spas than myself, but over the years I've been to more than my share. I never really felt sorry for the girls.

Then one day I went to a spa that I used to frequent and the girl that I got must have just come from Korea. She looked very young, which a lot of Asians do, she may have been of age, but she looked very young to me like a teenager, and she was scared. I could tell that she was alone and she had no idea what to do. I did not know what to do either, so I stayed in the room with her for a while so the mama wouldn't be suspicious and I gave her a tip without doing anything. I really did not know what to do so I just left. But it was something that really upset me because that girl it was not the typical girl you see at the full service amps. So I think that it does happen that some people get caught up in it... Maybe she knew beforehand maybe she didn't I don't know but I can only tell you she was very young and afraid.

Aside from that one isolated incident, most of the girls that I have known at the spas basically told me that they were business women. Most of the girls that I knew just approached it like running a business and they wanted to make money and that's what it was about.

They had goals for money and they I knew there was basically a shelf life for them, and they ran it just the way any of us would run a business. Except for that one isolated incident it was all just very straightforward and supply and demand.

Some of these girls are super intelligent... And interesting.

 

[mikemendez]

@ASIANFUNTIME
Thank you, she was fortunate you were that one guy in the room with her, I’m certain most other guys would have pounced, I can think of a few that only view these women as soulless objects. Hopefully she pressed her way through and is getting along fine.