What you do when you fall in love with massage girl

[kgmspa]

And her knowing this, the chances that you are the only guy she is fucking is...?

She threatens me all the time. I dont blsme her. She is a good looking woman. Any man would be proud.

 

[MB247]

A few things come to mind:

-Stop drinking and hope I snap out of this confusion between infatuation and love, commonly known as 'perfect in every way' near vision distortion.

-Withhold money or refuse a few of her 'need' requests when they come and see if her opinion of me changes

-hope for an intervention

-See out a psychiatrist to figure out what Is wrong with my personality.

-prepare myself for entering her world where Nothing is as it seems, spending all of your free time taking her shopping, looking at someting, picking up her stuff she has stored in boxes at 10 different locations, all where she previously temporarily lived

-buy a bigger house, one that will fit her parents, sisters, brothers, wayward friends, parties she will throw

-hope some day I meet her first (few) stepping stone boy friends so that I can ask him/them how he/they got out. Better yet, meet her ex husband(s), if she divorced him.

-marry her and kiss everything i worked for good bye

- tell her i'm taking the garbage out and never come back

Not that I'm a pessimist, or maybe I am, either way these are just some ideas. And you won't find your answer in some rock and roll song.

First and for most, They are not all like that. If you fall I love with that kind of girl, yes, run.
Look for the real type look for that jem. I’ve had about 3-4 relationships anywhere from 7 months to a year and half. And I’m in one now. She is not a gold digger and is amazing. She is a keeper. So don’t always run, go slow find what you like and focus.

 

[Uniquelyme]

Any of you falling for a Amp girl. Need to get out and see non pros. Need to stop looking for more in places that are meant for just sex. Can it happen?? Of course it can.

Unlikely though and you're setting yourself up for a headache.

 

[haaretz]

You sound exactly like my GF. When I tell her she is good friend of mine my GF looks at me with contempt and says yea u and these asian girls. Im like why you say that! Lol

For some strange reason my wife will blurt in Spanish, "you and las chinitas" wtf I go out of my way NOT to look at them. Impossible here in San Francisco. It's like they have that 6th sense.

 

[kgmspa]

Iv fee

For some strange reason my wife will blurt in Spanish, "you and las chinitas" wtf I go out of my way NOT to look at them. Impossible here in San Francisco. It's like they have that 6th sense.

I feel the same except she is an irish woman who is more brutal thany asian woman i ever met

 

[kgmspa]

 

[AutomaticSlim]

For some strange reason my wife will blurt in Spanish, "you and las chinitas" wtf I go out of my way NOT to look at them. Impossible here in San Francisco. It's like they have that 6th sense.

Nice...
I lived in San Mateo back in 90 to 92.
Miss it.

 

[oldhorndog53]

Iv fee

I feel the same except she is an irish woman who is more brutal thany asian woman i ever met

I feel your pain. Married to an Irish woman myself. And you're right on point about them being more brutal than Asian women. Way more brutal.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

I feel your pain. Married to an Irish woman myself. And you're right on point about them being more brutal than Asian women. Way more brutal.

My impression is that they do not age well either.
I went to Catholic school from K through College. Been around them my whole life.
Prettiest girls in the world (Honest) until they hit 30.
Then BAM!
They morph into their mother.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

My impression is that they do not age well either.
I went to Catholic school from K through College. Been around them my whole life.
Prettiest girls in the world (Honest) until they hit 30.
Then BAM!
They morph into their mother.

Still better than girls whose last name ends in a vowel though -- I'm allowed to say this, trust me.
Who are not much better than Jewish girls as far as entitlement and bitchiness are concerned...

 

[Koondog]

Yeah what's with the great bone structure of Irish girls? So pretty compared to their neighbors Brits, Scots, and Welsh.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Yeah what's with the great bone structure of Irish girls? So pretty compared to their neighbors Brits, Scots, and Welsh.

I think it's that grammar school thing for me.
Lusting after those pretty blonde haired, blue eyed girls.
It's ingrained in my psyche.

 

[Koondog]

I hear ya. In school growing up all the prettiest girls were indeed the Irish.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

I hear ya. In school growing up all the prettiest girls were indeed the Irish.

Yep!

 

[oldhorndog53]

My impression is that they do not age well either.
I went to Catholic school from K through College. Been around them my whole life.
Prettiest girls in the world (Honest) until they hit 30.
Then BAM!
They morph into their mother.

Sounds like you know my wife. She was hot when she was younger. Hell she was a flight attendant for Eastern Airlines back when people dressed up for their flights. No unruly, unwashed masses then. She still looked pretty good when I met her over 25 years ago. But she's definitely morphed into her mother. God help me, her mother lived to be 96 with dementia and Alzheimer's!

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Sounds like you know my wife. She was hot when she was younger. Hell she was a flight attendant for Eastern Airlines back when people dressed up for their flights. No unruly, unwashed masses then. She still looked pretty good when I met her over 25 years ago. But she's definitely morphed into her mother. God help me, her mother lived to be 96 with dementia and Alzheimer's!

Yes I remember as a kid in the 70s having to get dressed up for flying to Miami!
My evil WITCH of a mother FORCED me to wear a damned polyester Leisure Suit on those flights!
Lol!

 

[oldhorndog53]

Yes I remember as a kid in the 70s having to get dressed up for flying to Miami!
My evil WITCH of a mother FORCED me to wear a damned polyester Leisure Suit on those flights!
Lol!

Polyester leisure suits - I had 2 of them. Lee Majors, the Six Million Dollar Man, popularized them back then.

 

[Uniquelyme]

I hear ya. In school growing up all the prettiest girls were indeed the Irish.

What's crazy is I think you might be right. Two of the prettiest brunettes were Irish. However many were too pale White. These two had a bit of a tan.

Once they become I would say 35 or so their looks greatly decline. 30 is being a bit harsh lol

 

[Mendacity]

“What you do when you fall in love with massage girl?

1. You smother her
2. Cause problems between her and owner/mamasan
3. Cause her to change shops, without notice
4. You visit her to often, more often than she really wants
5. You make her feel dirty, she’s ok doing what she does, but you attempt to love her, save her, rescue her, she doesn’t want to be rescued
6. You insert yourself into her life, she plays along, its her job, although you can’t differentiate
7. You cause her to treat you cold, you want something more and she just wants to earn a living.
8. You become isolated, you think about her everyday, all day
9. You spend money you really can’t afford, to see her
10. You are labeled by mamasan/provider, they have a special name for you, not a flattering one either

When a customer inserts himself into the life of a provider he does so selfishly, she can’t reject you as harshly as she typically would otherwise, since you insert yourself where she works, during her job, she depends on her return customer for earnings, she wants a decent tip, you attempt to include your heart, this places her in a very difficult situation. She eventually moves to another shop or city even, she’s happy until you find out where she’s relocated to and you once again insert yourself. You feel like she’s lying to you, as if she owes you something and has to be completely honest and forthcoming to you, she has a husband or at least one boyfriend, and you are neither to her. To her face and while you are alone, you speak well of her, to another monger you speak ill about her trying to mask your feelings. Your make believe rabbit hole wishes to kick you out, except you won’t look yourself in the mirror and come to terms with yourself. The fantasy becomes your life, no one but you is aware of it.
You become less productive, the addiction to her is overwhelming you.

Danny, you’ve Given this some thought, my brother . . .

 

[DannyG]

Danny, you’ve Given this some thought, my brother . . .

I can see how it seems like that, actually, I've heard from both sides of the massage table, in a matter of speaking, guys with a history of over zealous attraction to a provider which won't translate into nothing more than the hour visit, although they press the girl for more until it becomes toxic for provider. Providers over the years have shared some stories pretty much in the same manner, guys wanting more than a parlor visit, they become infatuated with them, its a cluster fuck. No means no, even at Amps.