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What you do when you fall in love with massage girl

benzy45

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"but it requires that the provider get out of the game immediately and that will mean the guy will have to provide financial support."

Why should a guy have to do that? Sounds like a business arrangement to me, not a relationship. She probably had a decade or more making oodles of tax-free cash, when does it end? Get a real job that is respectable and devote yourself to a man, and BE SERIOUS about it.

Let her cut her losses and make love and loyalty the main thing in her life, I mean it's not like most of these girls are 25 years old. They're lucky at their age a guy would even take interest in them considering what they did for a living. Talk about unrealistic expectations.
Fair points. But oh btw you're not aware of any relationships where the male is the only bread winner?
 

Koondog

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Sure, but that's when the woman needs to be a housewife and take care of their kids. Getting into a relationship later in life with a retired FS girl this is not the case. There is no reason she should not work on her own at a respectable job, and contribute to the relationship. If not and she insists on just staying home, she's just mooching off the man and that to me would set off all kind of red flags.
 

AutomaticSlim

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lol double standard much?
I don't think so.
Historical traditions mean a lot.
Traditionally nothing bad has come from men being promiscuous.
But over the last 50 years or so, a WHOLE LOT of bad societal problems have arisen by females being promiscuous.
There is a lot to be said be following tradition.
 

Koondog

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This is a rare time where I disagree with my friend slim. If a man cheats on his spouse it only gives the woman license to do to same thing. I couldn't very well call her out for being a cheat if I was doing the exact same thing. It would make me no better than her morally.
 

AutomaticSlim

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This is a rare time where I disagree with my friend slim. If a man cheats on his spouse it only gives the woman license to do to same thing. I couldn't very well call her out for being a cheat if I was doing the exact same thing. It would make me no better than her morally.
@Koondog
I guess it all comes down to what we observed growing up.
My Pop cheated all the time. And given the miserable harpy my mother was, I absolutely do not blame him. She kept her place (and then took it out on me, I guess).
I suppose I always saw it as my birthright. Good thing I'm not married....
 

xxxooz

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...my Polish Grandmother had some "sage" words of wisdom ... one of them was "..you meet in a bar...you live in a bar.." another was ... " if a man goes with another woman he spits out the window... and... "if a woman goes with another man she spits in the house...".. don't know how that works now but that's the way it was back then... just sayin'... take it for what it's worth...
 

VJLUTZ

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lol double standard much?
Yeah, there absolutely IS a double standard and it has a biological basis. When a woman give birth to a child, there is not question it is hers. Her husband assumes it is his and raises it as his own. If its not actually his & he thinks it is, then that is a huge commitment on his part being executed under false pretenses. That is why a wife's fidelity is so important to a man. [And, with the advent of DNA testing, the husband can now be certain of his paternity.]

Men can fool around and still provide very well for their wives (as I do). As the mother of my children, I will never divorce my wife for an AMP girl. A man fools around with his dick. A woman fools around with her heart. Even when I fell in love with an AMP girl, I knew she was poison. No way I was going to ditch my wife to be with her.
 

AutomaticSlim

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Yeah, there absolutely IS a double standard and it has a biological basis. When a woman give birth to a child, there is not question it is hers. Her husband assumes it is his and raises it as his own. If its not actually his & he thinks it is, then that is a huge commitment on his part being executed under false pretenses. That is why a wife's fidelity is so important to a man. [And, with the advent of DNA testing, the husband can now be certain of his paternity.]

Men can fool around and still provide very well for their wives (as I do). As the mother of my children, I will never divorce my wife for an AMP girl. A man fools around with his dick. A woman fools around with her heart. Even when I fell in love with an AMP girl, I knew she was poison. No way I was going to ditch my wife to be with her.
Great points @VJLUTZ .
 

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Yeah, there absolutely IS a double standard and it has a biological basis. When a woman give birth to a child, there is not question it is hers. Her husband assumes it is his and raises it as his own. If its not actually his & he thinks it is, then that is a huge commitment on his part being executed under false pretenses. That is why a wife's fidelity is so important to a man. [And, with the advent of DNA testing, the husband can now be certain of his paternity.]

Men can fool around and still provide very well for their wives (as I do). As the mother of my children, I will never divorce my wife for an AMP girl. A man fools around with his dick. A woman fools around with her heart. Even when I fell in love with an AMP girl, I knew she was poison. No way I was going to ditch my wife to be with her.
Very good points. I don't know if I would go so far as to call her poison.
 

Koondog

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Yeah, there absolutely IS a double standard and it has a biological basis. When a woman give birth to a child, there is not question it is hers. Her husband assumes it is his and raises it as his own. If its not actually his & he thinks it is, then that is a huge commitment on his part being executed under false pretenses. That is why a wife's fidelity is so important to a man. [And, with the advent of DNA testing, the husband can now be certain of his paternity.]

Men can fool around and still provide very well for their wives (as I do). As the mother of my children, I will never divorce my wife for an AMP girl. A man fools around with his dick. A woman fools around with her heart. Even when I fell in love with an AMP girl, I knew she was poison. No way I was going to ditch my wife to be with her.
I am hoping to take my AMP visit secrets to my grave.
You don't believe a man has the capability of being faithful to a woman? Doesn't say much about your faith in your fellow man, lol
 

TGBeldin

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Well...
Because what you have there is a situation where the girl (usually young and attractive) is being paid to provide a service to a guy (most likely not that attractive).

Here's the thing. Many girls will want a client to repeat / become a regular if he is kind and polite. This does not mean she is attracted to him. She may even have a good time with him while in the session -- and genuinely appreciate it when he leaves a nice tip. But...attractive females, even providers, have many other options. I realize a lot of you guys see the older ones, over 35 and such, so maybe there is a difference with them. I would not know. I can tell you that the younger ones that come in for NYC tours have no interest whatsoever in a "relationship" with clients. In fact, these girls will go out after hours and pick up guys (usually "bad boy" types) in bars and clubs. I know for a fact of one agency that helps pay the hotel fee and specifically forbids girls from bringing non-client guys back to their room.

Not saying it can't happen. ANYTHING can happen. Just saying I think is quite rare. And much more often than not, if a provider shows interest, she is scheming...
I think you missed my point. I do not disagree with what you said, just saying it really isn't any different. The current 18-29 y/os have a very different view of sex as a tool to get ahead. Many are very willing to fuck the boss at lunch to get ahead, then go out clubbing to pick up a guy that night.

I have no people I supervise, but a number of my clients' young hot professionals have essentially sought me out and said "if you tell my boss I have been very helpful on this project, and I get a bonus/raise, I'll fuck you when the project is over".
So riddle me this - what makes a man more deserving of a woman who see many guys when that man see many women? Is it her or is it you that who can't be trusted? :)
Exactly the question that some here do not want to hear--and when they are asked, they give some variation of "I'm a guy so the rules are different for men".

The reality is you are correct. And the ones I know that have succeeded for the most part are the ones where both parties immediately leave this business as provider or client.

When they BOTH stay in, sometimes it works and sometimes not.

The model some guys want--she quits, he still partakes, is guaranteed failure.

As to her "getting a job", for many of them there are very few options for more than min wage, and then the guy gripes she isn't pulling her fair share.

In most the cases i k ow the women have a more realistic viewgoing into a relationship than the men do.
 

xxxooz

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...Kdog,
I believe in fidelity... and have been a serial momagamist all my life...only strayed when the wife stepped out or stopped putting out ...Lol.. still am...word!...
 

xxxooz

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I think you missed my point. I do not disagree with what you said, just saying it really isn't any different. The current 18-29 y/os have a very different view of sex as a tool to get ahead. Many are very willing to fuck the boss at lunch to get ahead, then go out clubbing to pick up a guy that night.

I have no people I supervise, but a number of my clients' young hot professionals have essentially sought me out and said "if you tell my boss I have been very helpful on this project, and I get a bonus/raise, I'll fuck you when the project is over".


Exactly the question that some here do not want to hear--and when they are asked, they give some variation of "I'm a guy so the rules are different for men".

The reality is you are correct. And the ones I know that have succeeded for the most part are the ones where both parties immediately leave this business as provider or client.

When they BOTH stay in, sometimes it works and sometimes not.

The model some guys want--she quits, he still partakes, is guaranteed failure.

As to her "getting a job", for many of them there are very few options for more than min wage, and then the guy gripes she isn't pulling her fair share.

In most the cases i k ow the women have a more realistic viewgoing into a relationship than the men do.
TG,
...The best case scenario is she quits opens her own store as MMS and lives on the house fees... win/win... these gals all want to stop working the customers...all would rather be "Boss" with a busy store..
 

Koondog

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"Exactly the question that some here do not want to hear--and when they are asked, they give some variation of "I'm a guy so the rules are different for men".

That's not me. I want the rules the same for all. Be loyal to me and I will be loyal to you.

" And the ones I know that have succeeded for the most part are the ones where both parties immediately leave this business as provider or client."

That's optimal. Just try getting a FS woman out of this business though. Good luck with that.

"When they BOTH stay in, sometimes it works and sometimes not."

Can't see how. Sounds unfulfilling and "I can't do any better, have no self-respect---so..."

"The model some guys want--she quits, he still partakes, is guaranteed failure."

Shouldn't ask someone to do something you aren't willing to do yourself.

"As to her "getting a job", for many of them there are very few options for more than min wage, and then the guy gripes she isn't pulling her fair share."

I'd rather have a faithful woman filing nails all day making a fraction of what she once did, than a woman screwing 5 or 6 guys a day and hiding countless male contacts in their WeChat behind your back.
 

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You don't believe a man has the capability of being faithful to a woman? Doesn't say much about your faith in your fellow man, lol
I do believe a man has the capability of being faithful to a woman. I was faithful to my wife for over 30 years. If I would have died before discovering AMPS, then I would have died a faithful man. If I am careful, my children with think I was a saint as well. As a matter of fact, I am taking the love of my life on a nice romantic extended weekend. It should be quite a lot of fun judging from the ads on the internet!
 

benzy45

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Yeah, there absolutely IS a double standard and it has a biological basis. When a woman give birth to a child, there is not question it is hers. Her husband assumes it is his and raises it as his own. If its not actually his & he thinks it is, then that is a huge commitment on his part being executed under false pretenses. That is why a wife's fidelity is so important to a man. [And, with the advent of DNA testing, the husband can now be certain of his paternity.]

Men can fool around and still provide very well for their wives (as I do). As the mother of my children, I will never divorce my wife for an AMP girl. A man fools around with his dick. A woman fools around with her heart. Even when I fell in love with an AMP girl, I knew she was poison. No way I was going to ditch my wife to be with her.
I hear ya and I agree to a point. But there is no getting around the fact that a double standard is at work. Not to mention that there are plenty of guys who start fooling around with their dick and then their heart soon follows. I'd just love to hear how the conversation goes- "honey it's okay for me to fuck around but not for you". Good luck wid dat!
 
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