Well...
Because what you have there is a situation where the girl (usually young and attractive) is being paid to provide a service to a guy (most likely not that attractive).
Here's the thing. Many girls will want a client to repeat / become a regular if he is kind and polite. This does not mean she is attracted to him. She may even have a good time with him while in the session -- and genuinely appreciate it when he leaves a nice tip. But...attractive females, even providers, have many other options. I realize a lot of you guys see the older ones, over 35 and such, so maybe there is a difference with them. I would not know. I can tell you that the younger ones that come in for NYC tours have no interest whatsoever in a "relationship" with clients. In fact, these girls will go out after hours and pick up guys (usually "bad boy" types) in bars and clubs. I know for a fact of one agency that helps pay the hotel fee and specifically forbids girls from bringing non-client guys back to their room.
Not saying it can't happen. ANYTHING can happen. Just saying I think is quite rare. And much more often than not, if a provider shows interest, she is scheming...
I think you missed my point. I do not disagree with what you said, just saying it really isn't any different. The current 18-29 y/os have a very different view of sex as a tool to get ahead. Many are very willing to fuck the boss at lunch to get ahead, then go out clubbing to pick up a guy that night.
I have no people I supervise, but a number of my clients' young hot professionals have essentially sought me out and said "if you tell my boss I have been very helpful on this project, and I get a bonus/raise, I'll fuck you when the project is over".
So riddle me this - what makes a man more deserving of a woman who see many guys when that man see many women? Is it her or is it you that who can't be trusted?
Exactly the question that some here do not want to hear--and when they are asked, they give some variation of "I'm a guy so the rules are different for men".
The reality is you are correct. And the ones I know that have succeeded for the most part are the ones where both parties immediately leave this business as provider or client.
When they BOTH stay in, sometimes it works and sometimes not.
The model some guys want--she quits, he still partakes, is guaranteed failure.
As to her "getting a job", for many of them there are very few options for more than min wage, and then the guy gripes she isn't pulling her fair share.
In most the cases i k ow the women have a more realistic viewgoing into a relationship than the men do.