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What you do when you fall in love with massage girl
- Thread starter kgmspa
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I agree with this.
In the US, and in the current times with the laws we have, committing to any female is EXTREMELY risky.
The only ones that seem to be somewhat safe are the devoutly religious, Mormons and Evangelicals, and then you have to be the same.
In the past females used to police themselves. If a girl showed interest in a "bad boy" she would be shunned by her mother, grandmothers, aunts, cousins, and friends.
Back then, they forced her to make the right choice. Now, they run willy-nilly with no inhibitions, due to AA/EEOC combined with no fault divorce/alimony/child support laws. The risk for normal American males (not super religious) in marriage is overwhelming.
The solution? Don't do it. Do not put your life in the hands of a female with dubious morals. Provider or not. I cannot see any upside.
Have said it here before and will say it again. There are worse things than loneliness . MUCH worse things. Take care and ALWAYS put yourself and your future first!
A serious relationship with a provider can definitely work - I've seen it happen a few times - but it requires that the provider get out of the game immediately and that will mean the guy will have to provide financial support. Carrying on a serous relationship with a girl still in the business seems doomed to failure imo. But some of these girls would love to get out of the business for the right situation.
"but it requires that the provider get out of the game immediately and that will mean the guy will have to provide financial support."
Why should a guy have to do that? Sounds like a business arrangement to me, not a relationship. She probably had a decade or more making oodles of tax-free cash, when does it end? Get a real job that is respectable and devote yourself to a man, and BE SERIOUS about it.
Let her cut her losses and make love and loyalty the main thing in her life, I mean it's not like most of these girls are 25 years old. They're lucky at their age a guy would even take interest in them considering what they did for a living. Talk about unrealistic expectations.
Why should a guy have to do that? Sounds like a business arrangement to me, not a relationship. She probably had a decade or more making oodles of tax-free cash, when does it end? Get a real job that is respectable and devote yourself to a man, and BE SERIOUS about it.
Let her cut her losses and make love and loyalty the main thing in her life, I mean it's not like most of these girls are 25 years old. They're lucky at their age a guy would even take interest in them considering what they did for a living. Talk about unrealistic expectations.
I agree, it would not be a smart thing to do. However, love and marriage are not the same thing. You can love them without tying the knot. That would be the preferred way to go.
But the goal of many of these women is to get married. That is the Willy Wonka Golden Ticket for them. If you want them for the long term, that is the price. I could see someone marrying a HE girl, but not an FS girl. The problem is you kind of have to take it on faith she never engaged in FS pay for play even in HE shop.
It's one of those eternal questions: You can take the girl out of the AMP, but can you take the AMP out of the girl? The odds are against it, but its still in the realm of possibility. Of course, even if you marry a devout Christian virgin, there are no guarantees. But it's smartest to go with the odds.
But the goal of many of these women is to get married. That is the Willy Wonka Golden Ticket for them. If you want them for the long term, that is the price. I could see someone marrying a HE girl, but not an FS girl. The problem is you kind of have to take it on faith she never engaged in FS pay for play even in HE shop.
It's one of those eternal questions: You can take the girl out of the AMP, but can you take the AMP out of the girl? The odds are against it, but its still in the realm of possibility. Of course, even if you marry a devout Christian virgin, there are no guarantees. But it's smartest to go with the odds.
So riddle me this - what makes a man more deserving of a woman who see many guys when that man see many women? Is it her or is it you that who can't be trusted? 
All through history, males have cheated and females have policed themselves to be faithful.
That is the natural order of things.
The recent celebration of female immorality is proving fatal to Western culture. The culture that has provided the modern world with just about everything it has.
This will not end well.
"You need to catch them early in their career (so they're not super jaded) and also a HJ only type gal."
That's a whole different ballgame. I have met some amp girls who would never go beyond a handy (as far as I know, do we really ever know for sure?).
For these types I am sure a serious relationship could be had and maintained. For FS girls I just don't believe it.
That's a whole different ballgame. I have met some amp girls who would never go beyond a handy (as far as I know, do we really ever know for sure?).
For these types I am sure a serious relationship could be had and maintained. For FS girls I just don't believe it.