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I agree with this.
In the US, and in the current times with the laws we have, committing to any female is EXTREMELY risky.
The only ones that seem to be somewhat safe are the devoutly religious, Mormons and Evangelicals, and then you have to be the same.
In the past females used to police themselves. If a girl showed interest in a "bad boy" she would be shunned by her mother, grandmothers, aunts, cousins, and friends.
Back then, they forced her to make the right choice. Now, they run willy-nilly with no inhibitions, due to AA/EEOC combined with no fault divorce/alimony/child support laws. The risk for normal American males (not super religious) in marriage is overwhelming.
The solution? Don't do it. Do not put your life in the hands of a female with dubious morals. Provider or not. I cannot see any upside.
Have said it here before and will say it again. There are worse things than
loneliness . MUCH worse things. Take care and ALWAYS put yourself and your future first!