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Farewell from a sad monger….. I hope
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And I was planning on keeping this up as a series called The Sad MongerI really relate to your take on this.
Seems to me we’re all addicted to varying degrees: I’ve always been impressed by friends who don’t partake, and wondered what the core difference was.
I’m in the category of older, married monger whose wife just doesn’t want much sex, so the occasional romp is easy to justify; yet I could make more of an effort to seduce my wife, which I would on a desert island!
But being in NYC is like bring a kid in a candy store - incredible variety of high-quality girls.
There’s no hope for us.
Seems to me we’re all addicted to varying degrees: I’ve always been impressed by friends who don’t partake, and wondered what the core difference was.
I’m in the category of older, married monger whose wife just doesn’t want much sex, so the occasional romp is easy to justify; yet I could make more of an effort to seduce my wife, which I would on a desert island!
But being in NYC is like bring a kid in a candy store - incredible variety of high-quality girls.
There’s no hope for us.
"I’ve always been impressed by friends who don’t partake, and wondered what the core difference was."
Now there's a question to ponder. My guess would be most of his here have more addictive personalities than the average person. I know in other aspects of life, when I REALLY like something I'm all in. My father was the same way, he loved hunting and fishing and this pretty much consumed his free time.
Let's face it---the idea of a guy just being able to drive to some nondescript building and 5 minutes later be balls-deep inside some really attractive woman is pretty remarkable and I dare say can easily turn into an obsession very quickly. Especially for those of us sans wife and girlfriend. Hell even WITH girlfriend it's pretty impossible to stop lol
Now there's a question to ponder. My guess would be most of his here have more addictive personalities than the average person. I know in other aspects of life, when I REALLY like something I'm all in. My father was the same way, he loved hunting and fishing and this pretty much consumed his free time.
Let's face it---the idea of a guy just being able to drive to some nondescript building and 5 minutes later be balls-deep inside some really attractive woman is pretty remarkable and I dare say can easily turn into an obsession very quickly. Especially for those of us sans wife and girlfriend. Hell even WITH girlfriend it's pretty impossible to stop lol
I’m kind of embarrassed to discover that we all here are (myself included) a bunch of low functioning losers, I once heard a good line “rich people are those who’s lust for money is greater than their lust for girls” I’m seeing in this discussion that more less all guys on this board have too much extra time and not using it to enrich themselves, again I’m no different but it did cause me to self reflect, will I change? Who knows but being honest with yourself is a step in the right direction
I get you're trying to make this guy feel better but difficult job? They do half ass massages and take dick all day. It's a job... but not all that difficult. You don't need much training for it, basically just have a pulse and holes. And what these women do for work is illegal, so there is something wrong with it in that sense. This guy is caught up in religious shit.
even if they did exist, why would they hate this guy sticking his ding dong in a wet hole so much? who came up with that concept? if this guy was born on some remote island and never heard a word of God/Devil, guilt, shame, etc... would he still have this "addiction"? doubt it. I'm not trying to convince him to not stop... this thing is a money sucking system and STD's are a real concern, so he's def better off.
I consider myself agnostic/theist but there is a deep rooted fear instilled in me from past religious experiences (Roman catholic). I can’t really pinpoint exactly what started my addiction, but I always had an unhealthy fascination with pornography and sex even as young as 5 years old. I knew watching sex scenes in movies was forbidden as a kid, which made it impossible to resist and I had to find a way to watch. And to address your other comments about sex work. If you yourself had to sell your body for money, would it be easy for you? I don’t think you really acknowledge or realize the hidden mask some of these girls put on to keep up with this lifestyle. Just try to have some understanding.
if you read the comment he posted right after yours, you will see his issue has everything to do with his prior religion/faith. “Addiction” may not be the correct word for what he’s going through. Sounds more like “Religious Trauma Syndrome”.
what you consider yourself today doesn’t really matter, you would need to unravel whatever past damage was done from religious brainwashing. As far as understanding what these girls have to go through, I rather not. In general, it’s an easy living for them since they just need to own basic anatomy and collect money on their backs. If you disagree that’s cool, I’m not here to understand what makes these girls tick and put them on a pedestal. They provide a service I enjoy paying for from time to time.
what you consider yourself today doesn’t really matter, you would need to unravel whatever past damage was done from religious brainwashing. As far as understanding what these girls have to go through, I rather not. In general, it’s an easy living for them since they just need to own basic anatomy and collect money on their backs. If you disagree that’s cool, I’m not here to understand what makes these girls tick and put them on a pedestal. They provide a service I enjoy paying for from time to time.
It's a decision/choice we make and with any decision/choice comes the benefit or consequence of said decision/choice. If you have endless funds, a great immune system and no religious/societal restrictions bogging you down... you can have a good old time. Unfortunately, most people are weighed down by some hang up that gets in the way. I find, when I space it out, have the money to burn and monger wisely... I don't have much post nut clarity guilt (if any). Much like if I have a Reese's peanut butter cup now and then and not eat the whole bag every other day.